Matthew
7:1–2 Do not judge, or
you too will be judged. For in the same way, you judge others,
you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you.
There was once a
young couple that had bought their first house together. The first morning
during breakfast, they saw the woman next door hanging out her laundry. The
young bride commented that her laundry did not look very clean; she stated
perhaps she needed to try a new laundry soap. The husband remained silent
during these comments, and every time they saw their next-door neighbor hanging
out her clothes, the wife always made some similar remark. Finally, after
several weeks during breakfast, the wife commented on how her laundry looked so
clean this morning and that she must
have changed laundry detergents. The husband said no, I washed our windows very
early this morning.
Some people find it easier to assume the worst about people than
to give them the benefit of the doubt. However, when we jump to conclusions
about our neighbors, we also reveal something about ourselves, for the faults
we see in others are reflections of our weaknesses. This teaching
of Jesus needs to be more widely understood. Instead, we often hear a common
statement: Don’t judge me. Interestingly, this statement is the opposite application
of Jesus’s lesson. Jesus is not telling others not to judge us; he’s telling us
not to judge others. What others do is not our primary concern; what we do is
our only concern. Our most significant problem is not how others judge us but
how we judge others. When Jesus says, “Do not Judge,” he’s not prohibiting others
judging us He is speaking against us judging others; he’s issuing a severe
warning to take great care of how we judge others. We know this because Jesus
goes on to say:
Matthew
7:3–5 “Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in
your brother’s eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye? How can you say to your brother, ‘Let me take the speck out of your
eye,’ when all the time there is a plank in your own eye? You hypocrite, first take the plank out of your own eye, and then you
will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother’s eye.
We
must remember how faulty our perceptions are and how biases distort our
judgment. We often think we understand what’s going on when we do not—love
covering a multitude of sins (1 Peter 17:9). It is best not to judge at all
because God himself does not propose to judge a person until they are dead, so
why do we believe that we have any right to judge others.
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