Ephesians
4:32 Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving
each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.
A common misconception has been circling and orbiting the
Christian world for many generations. That is, if we are genuinely going to
forgive someone, we must also be ready to forget. This act of forgetting would
entail removing from our memories all the agonizing and distressing events that
brought with it the necessity of forgiveness in the first place. We would have
to pretend that none of the incidents that caused the hard feelings ever
happened. Attempting to forget something like that is like painting our old
rusty truck without sanding it down and removing all the tarnish. It would
cover over the rust briefly, but eventually, the rust and corrosion would start
to show through.
Many people out there
refer to the writings of the prophet Jeremiah and the model of God’s
forgiveness as far as forgive and forget (Jerimiah
31:34). This has led
many to the false belief that forgiving and forgetting go hand in hand. Some people
have the idea that God forgets sins once he forgives us. In one respect, God
does forget our sins because he will never use them as evidence against us.
But, on the other hand, the creator of all in Heaven and all on Earth does not
forget things in the manner we forget. We can delete memory from our computer
drives; as we get older, our recollections will not be as good as they once
were; however, all the histories of eternity are continually and perpetually
before his observation.
In studying God’s Holy
Word, we will read about the sins of Peter, Paul, Abraham, David, Moses, and
many other great people of God. God has not forgotten their sins, but they will
not be evidence against them. Because of their sins and our sins, there has
been a debt incurred, the wages of sin (Romans 6:23). It is this debt incurred by our sin that God
forgets. Our Lord and Savior, Christ Jesus, does not demand or require that we
wipe from our memory all the sins of the people around us. That would be
humanly impossible, and He also would not be pleased if we just pretended we
forgot. God wants us to forgive those who sin against us (Matthew 6:14-15); similarly, he forgives our sins against him (Matthew 18:23-35).
God does not forget the
sins we commit against Him, but He forgets the debt owed because of that sin. So,
this is how we are supposed to forgive those that sin against us, we may not
forget the sin, but we are supposed to forget and forgive the debt that the sin
incurred. The debt our sins have incurred was all paid for on the hill of
Calvary. The blood sacrifice cleared any debt that we owed because of our sins.
Christ Jesus gave His life to pay that debt. If we follow the two greatest
commandments (Matthew 22:36-40), we will want to give our lives back to God, not
in one great flash of glory, but in small increments, living for Him and
surrendering to Him more, day by day.
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